Relationships of Teens and Lack of Respect

What happened to the black family? Back in the day, people got married for love and not convienience. Today you'd be lucky to find a couple who have been married for more than 5 years. It's hard to imagine what is going to happen to the children when they grow up. They barely have respect for themselves, so of course they don't have respect for others. Girls think they have to look like video hoes with European features. Boys think they have to be thugs, drug dealers, or just plain low-life nobodies and that is supposed to be cool and acceptable. How do you get these kids or blacks in general to realize that they are worth so much more than that?
To be honest, some black women worry too much about black men being with white women or women of another race period. If he isn't someone you would date, then why do you care? Also, women spend too much time fighting over someone that doesn't want them. It became the thing to do to let guys "run a train" or have multiple lovers without protection. These are the same girls who get mad when someone does call them out their name. They are ready to fight. The way these girls dress these days make me cringe and it is horrible that their mothers are the ones paying for these things.
When it come to the boys, it is cool to have all these girls fawning over them and chasing them. When they get burned, they want to punish every woman on the earth by spreading it to as many that are willing to lay with them and not tell them that they have an STD. Boys lie about how sexually active they are because they are afraid of being called gay or a punk or whatever other name is out there. Again lack of respect for self. Why is it so great to have females stalking you? When did that become cool? Then the guys sit around and talk about the girl and what she did, and tell them to get at her or whatever, and she is dumb enough to let it happen. She thinks it's cute.
I went to get Chinese food one night and there were these four guys that were still in high school. They were sitting there eating and actually not cursing for a change. Then this girl they go to school with walks through the door, and one says that she is so cute that she can have his baby. When did that become sexy? When did that become attractive? What happened to asking someone on a date, and being shy and nervous when you meet the parents for the first time? What happened to sitting up on the phone all night talking? The nights when you were talking and feel asleep on the phone? I'm not saying these things didn't happen way back when, but it wasn't out of control and running rampant. Like mentioned before, you felt ashamed when more than just the person you were with knew you were having sex. You never wanted your parents to know. Now days, you would be lucky to find out if the parents care. Then these are the kids having children as teens, and the cycle repeats and gets worse.